This weeks content:

• Are You a SEX addict?
• My computer drove me mad.
• Smile awhile
  

Are You a SEX addict?

Modern day living seems to present an unending stream of sexual pressure on everyone.

Advertisements feature erotically and enticingly posed people just oozing sex appeal.

TV shows like "Desperate housewives", "The jerry Springer show" etc. etc.  are all targeting our sexual instincts.

Why do they do this?

Because it works! Whether we would like to admit it or not, a healthy sex drive is a crucial part of the human existence, and that's great.

But what about when your whole existence is based on that sex drive. It can become a controlling factor in all decisions you make, and actually take over your life. That's not so great.

Check to see if you may be heading toward sexual addiction:

1. Can you remember how many sexual partners you have had in the last 5 years, and their names?

2. Have you had casual sex, without worrying about the consequences, eg AIDS, pregnancy, other STD's ?

3. Will you have sex basically anytime any place that it presents itself, regardless of whether it is inappropriate? (I am not talking about having sex away from the bedroom to spice up your relationship"

4.Will you use sex as an escape mechanism, to escape your present day reality, as the only exciting thing in your life?

5. Are you threatening an existing relationship, by engaging in sex outside of the relationship?

6. Do you feel uncomfortable about the way you masturbate, what you imagine or what toys you may use?

7. Do you sometimes feel "bad" after a casual sexual encounter?

8. Is sex predominantly a physical activity to you?

9. Do you look or imagine any attractive member of the opposite sex as a sex symbol/prospective sexual partner.

10. Do you go out "just looking to get laid"?

11. Do thoughts about sex occupy your mind to the extent that you find it difficult to seriously focus on important issues at hand?

12. Do you feel unexcited by the promise of a new sexual relationship?

13. Do you decide to abstain from certain sexual activities, but find yourself unable to do so?

14. Would it be impossible,or very difficult to imagine your life without sex?

While not an exhaustive list, the above are pretty hard hitting questions. If your answers to 3-5 of them were in the affirmative, watch out.

You could be spinning out of control.

Re-evaluate the role sex plays in your life. You might be in a "Can't say no" mindset, which can have all sorts of social implications, as well as threaten the chance of a healthy long
term relationship.

My computer drove me mad!

As I made myself another cup of tea, waiting for my computer to download, it suddenly struck me: I have a broadband connection, my computer should not be this slow. Then I remembered my service provider telling me that most internet speed problems, are not actually caused by connection problems, but rogue code residing on your computer. Actually anyone using any form of internet access is susceptable to this problem. I quickly solved my problem, by eliminationg that code, which I DID find on my PC. Now my computer is lightening fast again. Do yourself a favor and check your computer - for f.r.e.e Click HERE.

Joke of the week:

Double Vodkas

A guy came into a bar one day and said to the barman "Give me six double vodkas."

The barman says "Wow!, you must have had one hell of a day."

"Yes, I've just found out my older brother is gay."

The next day the same guy came into the bar and asked for the same drinks. When the bartender asked what the problem was today, the answer came back, "I've just found out that my younger brother is gay too!"

On the third day the guy came into the bar and ordered another six double vodkas.

The bartender says "Geez! Doesn't anybody in your family like women?".

"Yeah, my wife..."

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And remember, keep on loving

Udo