Attraction secrets to attract anyone to you.
Its all about energy!
Yes, you read that right. Not energy in the simplistic physical form we experience everyday, but vibrational energy- the energy that you as a being possess.
You see, you can’t attract a person into your life, just by telling them to get there. The truth is that people react to what they see and feel, or think they see and feel. They see certain actions from you, associate certain traits to those actions, and feel either attracted or not. They associate certain actions to certain levels of energy.
This is all done subconsciously.
Think about cult leaders. Their followers will do anything, even to the extent of dying for them. This is not achieved by the followers being told to do something, it is achieved by what they see and start believing. They see a certain action, hear a certain idea, and because of the higher vibrational energy of the cult leader, these ideas seem to stem from the observers themselves. They believe that their actions were their ideas in the first place, the cult leader only reflecting what they were going to do or think anyway.
How is this done?
Well for one thing, there is always a promise of something that they don’t have, but will attain, by agreeing with the ideas. Its like a successful person saying to a beggar, just do as I say, and you too will become rich. This is a powerful motivator, if the beggar wants to become rich. All too often however, the beggar actually is quite happy where he is at some emotional level, and simply will not follow the advice.
So the first trick is to figure out what the other person really wants. Then show them that by being with you, they will get it- but only if they deserve it. You see, people always want what they cannot have. So if you just give in to every demand immediately, your perceived value will drop. When your value has dropped, all of a sudden the need to be with you is not nearly as great. So instead of gaining a relationship, you could be losing it by being to accomodating. Your perceived energy level has dropped.
Ok back to the energy issue.
People are naturally drawn to someone with a higher vibrational energy. Think about it, would you rather have a conversation with your favorite film star, or the busboy at the restaurant? The same holds true in relationships. Now, the easiest way to raise your energy, is by being positive and cheerfull. Ask yourself, who really wants to be with a miserable and grumpy person? Dress appropriately and confidently. People always seem to misunderstand the value of clothes. Being dressed neatly and cleanly, shows the world that you are in control of your appearance- and thus have a higher energy than a slob.
In a relationship scene specifically, make sure that you are complete. By this I mean, that you are not looking for the partner to make your life complete. You should be quite content, to be by yourself. The best relationships I have been in could be described as: “I love you, but I don’t need you”.
When you are in that frame of mind, dressed neatly and not needy, you become almost irresistable to a potential partner. The more they sense that you are vibrationally superior to them, the more they will want you.
Go with the flow.
So- the easiest way to get into a relationship, is by being aware that you can cope very nicely without one. The universe seems to respond by letting things flow toward you when you are ready. And it does this in the most unexpected ways. Be open to whats’ out there, you never know how your needs will be met. Most importantly, try not to force anything. This will drain your energy,
and actually work against you.
Do what you can and then go with the flow. Let the right energy flow toward you, embodied in the right person. That is the secret of attraction.
Remember to keep on loving.
Joke of the week:
How are husbands like lawn mowers?
They’re hard to get started, they emit noxious odors, and half the time
they don’t work.
How do men define a “50/50” relationship?
We cook-they eat; we clean-they dirty; we iron-they wrinkle.
How do men exercise on the beach?
By sucking in their stomachs every time they see a bikini.
How do you get a man to stop biting his nails?
Make him wear shoes.
How do you keep your husband from reading your e-mail?
Rename the mail folder “Instruction Manuals.”
How does a man show he’s planning for the future?
He buys two cases of beer instead of one.
How is Colonel Sanders like the typical male?
All he’s concerned with is legs, breasts and thighs.